
Who's Driving the Car?
In this episode, I explore the Buddhist concept of no-self (*anatta*) using the metaphor of a car with passengers to illustrate how our thoughts and emotions often take the "driver's seat." I explain that the self isn't a fixed entity but a collection of constantly changing aggregates—form, feelings, perception, mental formations, and consciousness—much like passengers in a car, with no single permanent driver. A key takeaway is that by cultivating mindfulness, we can learn to observe these "passengers" (emotions and thoughts) without identifying with them, creating space between stimulus and response. This practice offers practical benefits, such as increased freedom, self-compassion, and the ability to navigate life's challenges more skillfully by working with, rather than against, our internal states, ultimately leading to greater harmony and presence on life's journey.











