When we first step onto a path of self-discovery or spiritual practice, it’s natural to seek guidance. We look to teachers, books, podcasts, mentors, and traditions to help us make sense of our experience and offer direction. But at some point, a quiet shift begins. We realize that the wisdom we’ve been searching for may not be “out there” at all—it’s been within us all along.
In this episode of the Secular Buddhism podcast, I explore what it really means to be a lamp unto yourself—a phrase attributed to the Buddha near the end of his life. It’s a powerful reminder that while others can guide us, the real work of waking up can only be done from within.
I share a personal story from my years as a flight instructor, where teaching students how to fly offered unexpected insights into the nature of wisdom, fear, and personal responsibility. Learning to trust your own judgment in the sky is a lot like learning to trust yourself in life. Both require patience, courage, and an ever-present beginner’s mind.
This episode is about the transition from dependency to self-reliance—not in isolation, but in deep alignment with your own experience. It’s about letting go of the illusion that someone else has the answers, and embracing the possibility that you already do.
Whether you’re just beginning your path or have been walking it for years, I invite you to reflect on this important question: Where in your life are you still looking outside yourself for answers that may already be within?
🧘♂️ Listen to the full episode below and join me in this reflection on cultivating inner wisdom and learning to trust yourself more fully.
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With gratitude,
Noah
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